Arrived very discreet. Packaging was excellent. I didn't tell wife I bought it & Couldn't wait to try it out alone and got all lubed up and when I first slid into it, Wow! I turned it on and OMG...I experimented with a few different speeds till I found the one that best suited me. After 5 mins of heaven I realized my wife was watching quietly through the crack of the door while immensely aroused pleasuring herself. I was somewhat embarrassed but she took over with it briefly and then finished me off herself. Long story short, this thing is very large but the feeling and control of speeds and techniques are excellent. This will be my " go to" when the wife has a headache, or out of town or just a toy when we both are intimate. Highly recommend!